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Jendi's avatar

Yes! I'm crying right now reading this.

I like your distinction between being born gay and choosing to be queer. I haven't seen it framed that way before. As someone who had no idea I was trans till my 40s, I feel like I did have to make an affirmative choice to face the situation and act on it. But the situation itself was on some level always there, I guess.

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lycanthropy's avatar

thank you so much for this 💟

i've never been too keen on defining my sexuality with a label catered to filing myself away, but this really has cemented the pride in which i call myself queer. i want to be queer to build community and resistance, not to distance myself from potential accomplices. i've been feeling a lot of rage at how i've been treated in the "queer" "community" for being covid conscious and it just goes to show that our fight still has a long way to go. my accomplices don't have to share my sexuality or understand my gender, they have to understand that people are worth protecting from systems that want to kill us.

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